California

We had an unexpected trip to California this December, just before Christmas. Jared's grandfather, Ed Rolapp, passed away. He lived a long, happy, productive life; but he'd had some struggles with his health. We thought we might lose him last year. He fought through every trial and miraculously hung on for one more year. We were so grateful for the extra time with him. We didn't get to spend as much time as we wanted to spend with him, considering he lived in California. The time we did get was valuable, and we will have those memories forever. He will be missed deeply by all of us!

Our trip out and back was a nightmare. It dumped snow on us the morning we were suppose to leave. We hung out until the storm died down, and left that afternoon. The trip home wasn't much better. A storm blew in and we drove about 30 mph on the freeway once we hit Provo. Needless to say, it took about 13 hours both ways. Normally it's about 10 hours. Long drive with 3 kids!

Considering the circumstances, we were so glad to spend time with family. I hadn't met many of Jared's family members, and he hadn't seen most of them in years. It was almost like a mini family reunion. The funeral service was beautiful. Ed was a very loved man. This was Jared's first real loss of a family member, but he handled it well. I was glad I could be there to support him through it. There was a really nice reception at the Rolapp's home following the service. Everyone gathered to reminisce, eat, and laugh. It was a great end to the day.

We weren't planning on going anywhere for Christmas this year. We tend to travel a lot during the holidays because we have no family here. It's just become burdensome over the years. It's a nightmare to drag 3 kids and all of their presents across the states. We are packed in our car so tight, it's ridiculous. And of course the kids are whining because they can't move. We'd thought we might make a trip later....after the holidays were over. I guess Grandpa Rolapp had a different plan for us! Though we didn't stay for Christmas, we were able to do a little gift exchange and just spend time visiting. I'd say the trip was worth it!


Getting ready to leave for California. Daddy and his little helper shoveling the driveway.

Grandma Rolapp with Caile, after the funeral.

Opening some gifts at Grandma and Grandpa Egbert's house. What a mess!

Josh with his new ripstick from Grandma and Grandpa.....that thing scares me......hopefully he'll be okay on it!




Peyton with the loudest toy on the planet! Thanks again Grandma and Grandpa....he loves that thing!

A game of clue with most of the family. Jared, Josh, Barbara, Holland, Caile, Aaron, and Tom.